Wednesday, March 26, 2003

sometimes i wonder what relationships actually do to people

couples that can't spend time and be together, have this silent unwritten rule of truth and honesty and commitment to each other, but sometimes, you just cannot reveal the whole truth. imagine if the girl wants to go out with her friends, and knowing her character, she's more likely to have more male friends than female friends, and this results in creating some sort of tension between her and her bf to begin with. it's not easy to continue to maintain links with your friends after you get attached... and it's not like you wanna make new friends, or your friends want to go be friends with your bf, or your bf wants to know your friends. i guess the bf would be more willing and feel secure if his gf was hanging out with HIS male friends, and not HER male friends. but i guess if they're apart, say in a long distance relationship, there comes the problem of really having no chance to be able to see each other as and when you need and want to. imagine if the girl goes out with her friends, the bf starts feeling insecure and lonely or vulnerable, and he wants to see her, it's easy to just pop by.. esp in the case of Singapore..
so now it becomes a case of you wanna go hang out with your friends, but you feel bad cuz your partner doesn't feel comfortable with it... but you don't want to sacrifice your friends.. striking a balance is just so difficult isn't it

it's been a busy day today. rushing to and fro, filming and taking shots of places and people and things for an advertisement due later today... and now we're combining efforts to produce a tv commercial... it's really so tedious.. this project, module, CS3261, is absolutely not worth the MCs...

if you didn't tell the whole truth, would it be lying? you don't say anything that isn't true, but you just don't say everything about the truth. so do you consider yourself to be lying?

finance quiz thursday, 4265 presentation friday, 4265 midterm next friday... major major major stress...

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